an addendum to the post entitled "worth fighting for".
while romantic love is good and an obvious blessing, it's important to not overlook the most important stanza of the song:
Love will come to save us
If we'll only call
He will ask nothing from us
but demand we give our all
-- warren barfield, "love is not a fight"
9"As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love. 10If you obey my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have obeyed my Father's commands and remain in his love. 11I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete. 12My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. 13Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends.